THE BIBLICAL POLYGAMY BY PROPHET GOODNEWS ADOLPHUS

 Most women destroy their marriage themselves for the jealousy of another woman associated with their husband  and will stupidly pack out of his house because of the one-man-one-wife syndrome. The man would beg her to remain or to come back to the house but would  refuse. 

As she left, the other woman takes over the house. So the contention among the woman is to pack out the married woman out of her husband's  house so that she  takes over because he cannot marry two wives.  She could even consult spiritualists to solve this problem for her specially if the man is rich or have a good job since he cannot marry a second wife even though  he can comfortably take care of two wives.

Out of greediness and selfishness, she throws herself out of the marriage because she does not want to share her husband with another woman. In most cases, she also becomes another husband snatcher or  having casual sex with different men around who would not marry her; she also share  herself with the husbands of other women which she hates and packed out of her husband house and would  remain in that condition without getting married again until she grows old.  

 The woman that takes over the house stands the risk of leaving the house for the first woman if already the first woman have children with him. So this other woman would leave the house in shame after the man had reconciled with the first woman with children because he cannot marry both of them. So it takes the grace of God for her to get another man. Most women are willing to become either the second or third wife but do not see the opportunity as the result of the one-man-one-wife syndrome and because of these, several women  are outside the marital home all struggling to get just one husband.  

Therefore the quickest and easiest way for most women to get marry is to marry under the premarital sex option without the man fulfilling all the marital rites initially which is quite economical and approved by God provided they remain together as husband and wife  (Ex 22 16-17).

In the bible, any woman that the husband has not fulfilled her marital rites is called “concubine” and the other one that is fully married with marital rites is called ‘wife”. Thus father Abraham also had concubines that had children with him (Gen. 25:6). King David had four wives and ten concubines (2 Sam 20:3), King Solomon had three hundred wives and seven hundred concubines (1 King 11:1-3). King Solomon sinned because they were all foreign wives and concubines – no – Jew. They forced him to worshipped their gods and that was where God became offended- (worshipping foreign gods) and not because of the numbers of wives he married. Note this point carefully.   God allowed  the man by his financial status to marry as many wives he chooses. Thus God told King David that he gave him the wives of King Saul (after the dead of Saul) and if  that is not enough I would have added more  instead of taking Uriah’s  only wife.  ( 2 Sam. Chapter 12 ).  When two women are involved with a man as their husband then we can distinguish  between the two – who is the real wife or concubine but God recognizes  the two of them as wives – no discrimination.   

There are several rich men in most countries that can feed a whole community for at least one full year but they only limit themselves to one wife because of the one-man-one wife syndrome but making love to several girl friends they never take as concubine but pregnant them and force them to commit abortion because of their wives at home. Some of them die in the process of abortion and some ends up without bearing children even though they later marry. Such a woman could be your own daughter or your sister. This is the abomination of the one-man-one- wife syndrome. But God is not interested in distinguishing between wife and concubine. What he is so interested is that from the day a man and woman naked and make love, (either have fulfilled the marital rites or not) he recognizes them as husband and wife in as much as the customs and tradition of men vary from one tribe to another and across the world. 

He is not interested in any specific tradition as to become husband and wife of a particular race or tribe because marriage is not practiced in heaven;  and from that day onward, if you leave the man or woman and go after  another man  or woman secretly, you commit adultery because you have already established the sex bond as husband and wife. Therefore sex is not for fun but for marriage couple either traditionally married couple or concubine. 

More evidently, God recognized Uriah’s wife of David instead of any of his real wives and made her the queen mother of Israel and became the mother of King Solomon – the linage of the Messiah. God does not reason the way we reason and does not judge the way we  judge; so do not judge for him or detect for him the right way to do things as you feel or wish,  lest he turns against you.                   

The above option is economical to the advantage of both the man or woman because not every man have the money to fulfill those marital rites from the unset but  the man and the woman could sustain themselves and adjust to any condition they found themselves until God raise them up financially  and to fulfill the marital rites later and is never a curse or sin. 

 A girl waiting for a rich man to marry her may not marry until she reaches her menopause with grey hair. She shuns all the young men that come to ask for her hand in marriage but of low financial status.  But this other lady that follows the premarital sex option already married to her husband even with children; and as God blesses them, he goes to the parent and fulfill his marital obligation. So she commands   more  respect than the other lady who is still waiting for her rich Husband to arrive before she marries and she may be disappointed by different rich men who may take her to warm their beds and later abandon her which at first she considers it as a sin and does not want to give her body to anybody yet until she is fully married.  By the time she comes to look for premarital sex relationship already it is too late for her and had lost her virginity, her beauty and she is looking old.

So the premarital  sex relationship is more quicker and economical for a woman to get married without much stress on the side of the man provided they love themselves and not in the spirit of fornication but as husband and wife. In some culture, partial marital rites is  allowed. The husband could fulfill part of it either at the beginning of their marriage or later and  after they have children and still come back and complete the marital  rites.  

 The husband and his parents are very happy based on the fact that already she is proved fruitful and there is no lost on whatsoever amount of money they had spent during  the marriage ceremony. They consider it far better than the one the husband would spend all the money for the marriage ceremony but no child. Some rich men  do wed their bride with pregnancy and latter fulfill the traditional rites after she had been put to birth.  As tradition demands, they do not pay bride price while the woman is already pregnant until after she had been put to birth but can do church wedding with pregnancy.  

A NEW WAY TO MANGE A POLYGAMOUS HOME

Every married woman should bear in mind that God gives the man  an opportunity  to marry more than one wife and is not a sin.(Deut. 21:15-17). Therefore, if you live in a man’s house and you see him with another woman, do not rain fire and brimstone on him provided he does not ask you to pack out of his house and is taking care of you and your children. This could also give room to your daughter to get married easily and that could only be possible when marring more than one wife is not considered as a sin. In case your husband died or he devoiced you, you can easily marry another man - you may become either  a second wife or third wife  and still command  respect as a married woman and not a prostitute – moving from one man to another while your daughter too is also searching for her own husband. 

Sometimes you may even try to snatch your daughter’s boy friend or fiancée by seducing him because you want to marry him instead of your daughter since both of you are looking for a husband to marry specially if the man she is dating is handsome and rich. At the end, the man may take both of you to bed unknown to each other and run away. IT IS HAPPENING LIVE! So do not be selfish, greedy and jealous in your matrimonial home, it will become a blessing to your daughters who may become either the first or second wife to a very rich man and become a blessing to your family.

Now for the men, you know that polygamy is very problematic among women and their children – that is why most people avoid it. The bringing together of the women and their children under the same roof by one man known as their husband is a polygamous home. Each woman want to make love to their husband when it comes to her turn; contention of who give their husband  male child, mockery of the other women with female children but no boys, which of the wives the husband loves most, one woman may say, “He only  enjoys her food not mine, he bought her costly cloths and her children but bought me inferior clothes and my children”.  Sometimes, the man would love to pass the night with one more than the other –it may be she is sweeter than the other and the one displeased would give him condition before he passes the night with her if he had lost taste on the one he loved more like the story of Jacob and his two wives –Lea and Rachael the two daughters of Laban.

The woman would tell her children, “your father  married me fully by fulfilling all the martial rites.  So I am his real wife others are just concubines. I will take the lion’s share of his possessions with my children when he dies; after all I have male children for him” . Some wicked women will go to witch doctor in order to kill the other woman or her children because of the husband possession etc. These are some of the problems surrounding polygamy.  

Evidently, Leah accused Rachael of snatching her husband from her when she came to demand from her mandrakes which Ruben her first son brought from the field and refused to give her.  Leah was humiliated by her Junior sister Rachael who always begged her husband before he passed the night with her but spent most of the nights with Rachael. In today’s world we may say, “it may be she gave him  love portion to forget about her elder sister”  In her refusal to give Rachael  the mandrakes,  this is what she told her elder sister:-  “well for the sake of the Mandrakes I will allow him to pass the night with you” .Could you imagine that?  


 So Leah only make love to Jacob whenever Rachael permitted him. So did Rachael controlled Jacob?  Based on Rachel’s approval to pass the night with him,  Leah used that as an opportunity for her to  approach Jacob who just returned from the field and ask him  to pass the night with her before he eats Ruben Mandrakes based on Rachael's approval ; and based on this condition,   he passed the night with her;  and in that same night she conceived and latter gave birth to Issachar  her fifth son; and she conceived again and gave birth to another son she named ”Zebulon” meaning “ Now my husband will dwell with me because I have born him six sons” Therefore a male child was a priority to win her husband’s  heart when Rachael has none because God shut her womb against Jacob because God is interested in the first wife and must give her own rights  as he instructed through Moses (Deut.  21:15-17).

 Leah made mockery of Rachael through the names of the sons she born to Jacob to offend her junior sister whom she accused of stealing her husband. But those mockery names became highly prophetic. The two most outstanding names are "LEVI AND JUDAH".   As she gave birth to Levi she said,  “This time my husband will be joined unto me  because I have born him three sons meaning  of Levi -  the father of the priesthood  tribe of Israel – the reconciliators and mediators between  God and his people through scarifies and offerings in the days of old. As for Judah she said just SIX  WORDS “NOW I WILL PRAISE THE LORD” meaning of Judah – , THE ROOT OF DAVID, THE ROYAL HOUSE OF DAVID,  THE KING OF PRAISE, THE SWEET PSALMIST OF ISRAEL, THE CHOIR MASTER OF THE CHOIR MASTERS , THE COMPOSER OF MUSIC  AND MUSICAL INSTRUMENT INVENTOR, THE BUILDER OF THE FIRST TEMPLE OF PRAISE, THE LINAGE OF THE MESSIAH THROUGH KING DAVID OF OLD. (GENESIS CHAPTER 29 AND 30)

Thus Leah THE GREAT HEROINE, defeated her junior sister Rachael in the contest  by producing the two most important and  powerful tribes of Israel – LEVI AND JUDAH  because she was Jacob's first wife; therefore God said to Moses said“ Every First Born is MINE”. ( Ex 13: 2 ). Later God opened Rachael’s  womb and gave birth to Joseph and Benjamin and the house of Joseph became the forerunner and the contemporary of the house  of Judah through Ephraim – Joseph's second son.  They were represented by Joshua of Joseph tribe and Caleb of Judah that led the children of Israel into the promised  land after the dead of Moses and Aaron the great Levites.

From the story of Leah and Rachael you can imagine the kind of problem and challenges surrounding  polygamous marriage which require enlightenment and education. But based on the fact that the whole mindset of some Christians is based on on-man-one-wife (monogamy), lots of books had been written and lot of marriage seminars held on monogamy alone  but none about polygamy which they considered as sin contrary to what is written in the bible and where King David himself was a polygamous husband the royal line of the Messiah. 

Based on the fact that polygamous marriage reduce unmarried population of the women, we cannot totally do away with it in as much as sex itself is polygamous in nature and eliminate prostitution, fornication, adultery, abortion and impotency in men that are not created of the same nature. Therefore there is the need to provide solution to the problems surrounding polygamous marriage because it will help our society a great deal particularly the women folks.

 One of the major problem in polygamy is the bringing  of the women under the same roof with the husband even in the same compound. It sparks off enviness, heated, jealousy etc among the women as they see each other every day and  every night and among their children as well. Staying far  from each other is the best bet. Today’s world is a global village – so distance is no longer a barrier unlike in the old days where technology of our kind was not availables. You can travel to any part of the world by air in a matters hours and minutes, you communicate with any person around the world as if he or she is talking to you in the same room and by internet. For example, you could marry in different states of province and best of all internationally. You could have a wife in Port Harcourt and the other wife in Abuja or Lagos and in other parts of the world depending on your financial status and the caliber of women you wish to  marry.

Any of the women in those places sees you as her only husband without seeing a rivalry within the area. So she remains secure with her children. Any of the assets you have in that region belongs to her and her children without any of her mate meddling into her privacy. In that case, you have automatically shared your assets to your wife and children  before you die in any of the regions your have your family. Nobody drag property with one another – neither your wife nor her children.  

 You should let the other woman you are proposing to marry  know that you have another wife and children elsewhere do not deceive her. If she says that is not a problem, you go ahead with your marriage and you progarmme youself on how long you are going to spend with your wife in each location.

 It better for those with an independent job such as  being in business involving the two countries for example import and export(buying and selling of locally made goods which has a demand in the other country and other professional services from both ends and avoid prohibited items by customs). You can also involve in inland trade – buying goods in Port Harcourt and selling in Abuja and from Abuja to Port Harcourt or in other cities as applicable in other parts of the world.  You can spend two weeks or month in each location with this woman and her children. Some offshore workers spend two weeks to one month or more before they see their wife and children.  But since you are an independent business man or professional, do not spend too long a time with one woman alone. Programme your time equally so that one woman does not feel cheated. 

The women may not see each other yet but as time goes on,  the children would like to know of their brothers and sisters within the country and in overseas when they are of age unless one among them is barren. 

As for the women,  they would know each other later through the children that had already established contact with one another even before their father would known it. The woman seeing the love existing between the children, each of them  will be pretending to love each  other as wives of the same husband and based on the fact that since they do not live together with their children under the same roof, they do not know each other good and bad character. So each would pretend to be a very loving and good wife to the husband having known that she is not his only wife. They would share their love to the children in general as if they have two mothers born of the same father based on the fact that they do not live together under the same roof but see each other from time-to-time; so they would love to see each other all the time and share their problem and helping each other in any parts of the world. 

 If in the same state or province, they must stay far apart so that they do not see each other too often. Some women would love to see the other wife – if she is ugly or beautiful than her, whether you are spending too much on her than herself, how many children you have with her, her financial and educational status etc and then start to make problem with you due to jealousy and enviness. 

This  is one of the advantage of a separate polygamous home. In addition to that,  one could be deceived that it increases population but by far one-man-one-wife increase population more than polygamy. For example, a man that marries five wives that are very fruitful one may feel that will produce so many children but if you share another five women to five men that are also fruitful, their population will be more than the one with five wives. The one with five wives, would share the time he makes love to  each wife but some times each of the wives would miss her period of conception because the husband  is passing that night with another wife – so she misses her chance of being pregnant at that night but that is not the case with the one-man-one-wife marriage of the five men  and five women; each woman will  not miss her conception because they are always  together both day and night – so they produce more children than the man with five wives and  that is causing population explosion which result to shortage of food, joblessness, prostitution, abortion and birth of bastard criminals. 

Cont. in part 16

THE RULES OF POLYGAMY BY PROPHET GOODNEWS ADOLPHUS

Under polygamy, it is quite problematic to keep women under the same roof rather they should stay far apart – living in different states or provinces and in different countries depending on the financial status of the husband and the caliber of women he married. Most women do not need the money of the husband but want to bear his name as married women and most of them have good jobs and operating a good business with good educational background.  However, a man with sound financial background can also marry a woman with poor financial back ground and education depending on the love the man has for her.

But the issue of “one-man-one wife" is the greatest fear among women which is affecting both the married and the unmarried. The married woman always suspects the husband whenever she sees any woman around him with the fear that she would snatch her husband from her and she and her children will remain strantded because is a matter of one-man-one-wife with the believe that is a sin for a man to marry more than one wife. As for the woman not yet married, she is always afraid of the man’s wife so that she would not be embarrassed  even though she is having casual sex with her husband secretly. 

Eventually she becomes pregnant, the man would force her to terminate it for fear of his wife. This woman may be very close to her menopause and this pregnancy becomes her last hope but  unfortunately, the man does not want to claim responsibility.   ‘Should I terminate it or give birth to a bastard child?’ She asks herself in tears. The man may even give her the money to abort it in order to assure her of his seriousness and does not want to have problem with his wife at home who may report him to their pastor in the church because it is a sin to commit adultery and must not marry two wives. 

So the man is committing three sins at the same time – abortion, adultery and marrying two wives at the same time through fornication.  In some cases, the lady may die during abortion or survived with a very deep regret and still searching for another man. 

Most men are naturally sex maniac – in order words,  have great sexual urge for women than other men because  all the men are not created the same way.  No matter how holy he claims to be yet he still have secret lover outside in most cases with a  prostitute.  Evidently,  so many great men of God are caught with prostitute in the hotels.  Some are caught with their lady members during outreach or evangelical programme using it as an opportunity  while  lodging  in hotels. This is where they know the real men of God.  However, such sin cannot stop the anointing in him    rather continue flowing to encourage him  to sin more until he is caught and be disgraced before he realize himself.

Most married men do look for other women outside because they have  lost sexual urge  with  their wivies and lost erection but get  erection whenever they make love to another women outside their matrimonial homes which may be their  girl or woman friends and get sexual satisfaction. If  a man does not have someone else and has lost erection, the wife becomes worried because he could no longer perform and they attributed it to be evil spirit. Before you know it, the wife too would look for a spare part outside in order to satisfy her sexual huge; it may be a very young man far below her age bracket. This could break their marriage if the husband notices that she is committing adultery with another man likewise the woman.  This type of man can only manage his sexual drive with two wives alternatively and not depending on one wife alone. Therefore,  this kind of man with unusually sexual drive  becomes a blessing to other women outside looking for husband to become a second wife instead.  

God did not create all men with the same sexual drive – he created them differently in order to fulfill different purposes. A  man may lost his erection as he constantly making love to his wife without an alternative. He no longer has the sexual urge on that woman just as you eat the same kind of food all the time. Some couples can remain for months without making love and nobody complain because both of them have the same limited sexual drive. They do meet ones a while and the man does not lost erection but lost erection whenever they meet quite often because his sexual feeling about that woman has reached a saturated point.  Therefore,  if you do make love to your wife quite often,  you would lost erection naturally; unless you give a gap –say three weeks and above; the urge  will come back to you  because the sperm had been accumulated to be released which created the sexual urge to meet her and you are back again in full force.  No devil causes it – give a gap! 

Just as some men are hungry for food but lost appetite to eat when they keep eating the same kind of food until they eat something different that satisfy their apithied. Here, I mean, some men  have this kind of sexually drive naturally;  they are not always satisfy with one woman alone; even though he has lost erection for his wife,  yet he still have the sexual urge in him until he meets another woman before he will be satisfied as earlier explained. 

I regard it as  the spirit of fornication unless he also take this other woman for his second wife and does not making love to several women around like a prostitute but limited himself to his two wives as God approved ( Deut. 21:15-17). 

A woman looking for a husband would want him to take her for his second wife but he would refuse for fear of his wife because it is one-man-one wife affair. Since he does not want to marry her even if she becomes pregnant he would force her to abort it. As a result, would give him a very big demand in order to drive  him away because she feels that his  coming around her is blocking other men that wants to marry her. So in other to satisfy his sexual urge,  he would be  committing fornication with different women and wasting all his money on them while his wife at home continues to lament as a result of one –man –one wife sydrome. If he keeps another wife outside, he will limit himself to his two wives and spend less unlike those girl friends in the hotel.  

Some women too has great sexual drive; they cannot endure for some time until the husband regain himself. Such a woman can easily blow it up to the public that her husband has lost erection and that is why she is going after another man. In most cases, such women get pregnant from another men and give to their husbands. It is a shame for the married women to be meeting men outside when already she has her husband because she cannot marry two men unlike the man. She should pray to God to take away that high sexual drive from her so that she can enjoy her marriage else it could lead to  a broken home and when she is getting old,  she begins to regret it. Sometimes,  none of her children will take good care of her as a result of her broken home. So you must endure in a man’s house in order to avoid broken home. 

                                    

             TASTE

The above Five letter words “TASTE” is the king of sexuality; without it there will be no sex and reproduction. It controls both male and female. Every individual has different taste. In animal they have different smell or odor. For example, if you order three women to prepare stew and rice for you, they cannot give you the same taste even though they use the same incridents in equal proportion. Most women can cook very well because of her kind of taste but not all of them.  Some men cook better than women and some don't enjoy their wives food but do eat in the Restaurants because  do not have good taste.  The taste is in the palm of a woman’s  hand likewise the man and  that become her source of good taste which attracts customers in a restaurant business likewise the male cook. In term of sexuality , not all the women have the same taste  on the bed likewise the men.

 Consequently, If a man makes love to three women, he can easily distinguish between which of the three is sweet, sweeter and sweetest, likewise the woman will feel if she makes love to three different men; that means,  the body itself has different taste because the blood group and genotype of each individual of both male and female are not the same. 

Consequently, sex itself is polygamous and depend on taste and therefore is contrary to monogamy –which means is not a one-man-one-wife issue; if a particular taste in a woman has reached a saturation point in  man which demand an alternative woman, in the absence, can cause permanent impotentency depending on the individual.  Therefore,  sex is quite dependable on taste. Without that, a man will remain permanently impotent as soon as he lost erection for his wife; the urge cannot come to him again even though he sees another woman naked because he will feel that is the same taste with his wife; so he will not be moved and his condition remain the same.

 The man can regain his erection when he sees another woman with different taste. Before taking her to bed, just at first sight, he had already gained his erection because of the first  attraction as one gets attracted to a meal he never tasted before but looks very delicious with attractive aroma. The taste in this woman may be sweeter than his wife at home  but will later become exhausted too with her and the taste for his wife will return to him  and  will perform very well on her  alternatively. So sex is polygamous and not monogamous because it built on taste.  

Taste can break marriages. For example, a lady who had a boy friend but could not marry him because of his poor financial background,  can still maintain her relationship with him even after she is married to another man because of his taste likewise the man to a woman. So what brings a man and a woman together is the taste.

 Therefore,  most ugly men and women have better taste than beautiful and handsome men. God gives them that grace in order to attract marriage  partners. In that case, you see a wealthy man married to an ugly lady and beautiful lady to an ugly and poor man because of the taste. Is not the money that matters, because money answers all things  and one can satisfy himself sexually with several beautiful ladies with money and also  not the beauty of the woman that matters  because with her  beauty she attracts good things and wealthy men. Therefore,  you  see  a wealthy man with a beautiful wife still looking for other ladies and a beautiful wife  with her wealthy  husband still looking for another man in order to satisfy their taste. 

Therefore those men in  the western nations, where polygamy is prohibited, you see them keeping their wives in the house and meeting women  lodging in the hotels. They have freedom to devoice anytime in order to get access to other women and does not  stick to  only one woman  and use  that as an  alternative to polygamy. Consequently, monogamy (one-man-one-wife) boosts the tourist industries world-wide and the largest percentage of them come from the western nations as a way of relieving themselves from their wives and to get free access to other women anywhere in the world. So they consider vacation as their greatest privilege in life including some Asian nations where polygamy is prohibited because you cannot cheat nature.  In that case, it become a big boost to the sex industries both the western nations and abroad and in most cases some  of the women become the victim to the tourist industries by falling into the hands of  women traffickers who sexually abuse them as sex slaves to make money from tourists  both in the western nations and in different countries abroad. This is one of the evil of one-man-one-wife philosophy (monogamy).    

         

             SPIRITUAL CASTRATION

Jesus said, some people are made eunuch for the sake of God’s kingdom (Mat  19:10-11). You have read about the story of the Ethiopian eunuch (Acts 8:26-40).  Men are made eunuch or castrated like a dog in king’s palace so that they do not have feeling for the kings wives and cannot make love to them. 

Therefore, Queen Jezebel which was  King Ahab’s wife had eunuch that was her Body Guide who threw her out of the windows and scattered her body. ( 2 Kings 9: 30-33 ). The reason is that most Queens do admire handsome young men and use their royal influence to intimidate them in order to  make love to them when their husband is away. The same thing happened to Joseph and Potiphar wife but resisted her which landed him in the prison because Potiphar was one of the great men of Egypt that worked with Pharoah.

God also castrate  his great Prophets spiritually so that they do not fall victim to women like Prophet Elijah, Jeremiah and John the Baptist that spent all the days of their life in the wilderness apart from Prophet Jeremiah and  had no wife and no child. Under spiritual castration, the sexual urge for woman will be taken away from you. Like myself, I wedded in the year 2000 at the age of Forty and had my first son at the age of Forty-one because of my religious devotion when  I first appeared  in the wilderness of John the Baptist in 1981. My spiritual encounter with the angel that gave me the scroll greatly transformed my life as I begin to receiving visions from the holy bible from that day onward. 

Although,  I was still doubting about my calling until in 1984 when the mantle of Elijah arrived and the brimstone(sulphur)was given to me that now physically affect my body and the gases vibrating in me till date and I never take drugs.

Being in that state of mind, I have no feeling for women. Both my mother and family members were afraid feeling that I am completely out of the world and I am impotent since  I  have no interest in women.  But as I founded the church,  my members put pressure on me that I must have a wife else the husbands of the women in the church will be suspecting me because I have no wife and they will stop their wives from attending  church. So I married lately in the year 2000 at the age of 40 like Moses in the land of Median.

Now under castration, the strong feeling for woman will die in you and make love to your wife whenever you choose and not being over influenced by sexual urge.  Under spiritual castration, if another woman wants to tempt or seduce you, you get angry immediately and rebuke her and would not try it next time.  You can remain for months  and even for years without having feeling for any woman like Apostle Paul and the rest of the Apostles of Jesus Christ because they had been made eunuch because of God’s kingdom (Mat. 19:10-1). 

So it takes the grace of God to keep you in that state. But it has a role; you must be very busy in God’s work and prayerful and reading your bible all the time else you will be tempted and fall away. Most great men of God are not castrated spiritually that is why they often fall into the hands of women inspite of their great anointing.  Where there is  no woman to approach, they fall into child sexual abuse in order to satisfy their urge.  Sex itself is natural; so to refrain from it, you are waging war against nature which becomes a very difficult battle for most men of God.  That is why,  Jesus gives a special preference to virgin saints or eunuch to be raptured first into heaven and to become our heavenly Ambassadors because of their sexual sacrifice they offered while on earth.

Based on this factor, a man with a very high sexual drive should marry at least two wives and alternate between them in order to avoid lost of erection, impotency and adultry.  A real believer should ask  God to spiritually castrates him so that he does not fall into the sin of fornication, adultery and homosexuality.  

TO BE CONT. IN PART 15

THE MYSTERY OF THE SEVEN HORNS OF THE LAMB (13) BY PROPHET GOODNEWS ADOLPHUS

The preaching against polygamy has become the greatest obstacles to women all over the world from getting married. It is a weapon the devil uses to encourage prostitution, abortion and birth of  bastard criminals all over the world in as much as Christianity spread all over the world without a concrete proof from the holy bible but based on western industrialized  economy. 

Monogamy was introduced in Europe  between the 17^th and 18^th century during the industrial revolution when the machines were invented in order to take care of the labor force in agricultural production  and to eliminate the man –labor in the  farm lands. 

Prior to this era, subsistence farmers in Europe married more than one wife in order to boost agricultural production with their wives and children like in most part of the world. The demand for more house wives in order to boost agricultural production was reduced drastically as it seems quite economically advantageous to remain with one wife and children while the machines take care of the farm works. This economical consideration became a very big blow to the women's world in Europe and throughout the world. 

Contrary to this economic consideration, regular tribal, ethnic and even international wars never end which reduced the numbers of men killed in the battle field keeping the women widowed and frustrated the girls yet to be married. As the demand for men became very high among the women, it gave birth to the Women Revolution that shook the western world  within the 18^th century in order to have equal opportunity with the men in the labour force and to eliminate female discrimination   in the area of education and employment  due to the scarcity  of men who would have married them as they were depending on them  to take care of every aspect of their lives. Therefore,  the need for freedom and liberty arose  which was given to them simultaneously from one European  country to another as this protest was all over Europe including the United States of  America. 

Therefore women possessed  two kinds of jobs - one in the kitchen and one at the place of work;  before it was only  in the kitchen. The public job service gave the educated and unmarried women financial independence and could enjoy an independent life quite unlike the married women. The married women were guided by the marital  laws so they would comport their lives as married women unlike the unmarried that were financially independent . 

 Yet, men were still scarce as the world  war 1 and 2 had claimed the lives of several men in the battle field. In some European countries, the government advised the men to marry several wives like in Germany but the church leaders shot it down – saying it is a sin to marry more than one wife because Christianity  rules the west and each European country imitate the other.  But today they could not tell their government to stop abortion, gay marriage, lesbianism, prostitution and all kind of sexual abuse going all over the West and the world   and has put the whole women into total mess all over the world 

 At the end of the world wars, the West as a whole was technologically advanced  and more agricultural and other industrial machines were introduced. They were several cases in courts that reveal the disadvantages of marring more than one wife, dual citizenship involving other nations were also part of the problems that were involved in polygamy. Based on these and other  factors, they placed a ban on polygamy provided the machines are there to do the jobs while both married and unmarried women were  equally employed to work in those industries  and government offices. Those women that are not yet married became sex workers; so prostitution  became a legalized profession as well as abortion. The church could not stop it and had  now approved  gay marriage.  

These independency, gave the women to dress up  the way  they like in order to attrack men. Before it was forbidden for a woman to wear trousers. Some women were jailed in Europe for wearing trouser at first. After that era, the women can dress even half naked in the public all to attrack men to marry them and can sell her body to many men as possible and act sexual films. The church keep quite.Both the man and woman can divorce and  re-marry as many times as possible and men became so  exhausted to make love to women and decided  to make love to their fellow men through the anus instead of the female virgina.   . This is also a very big threat to the women world who are already shot of men to marry them as men are going after their fellow men and abandoned them. 

 Since monogamy (one-man-one wife) has become a western industrialized culture,  the early  European preachers that spread Christianity to the  whole world through the former Colonial  Masters  now tie it up with the bible addressing monogamy as the only kind of marriage God approved  adding that if you marry two wives you will go to hell fire.  So it becomes a very serious doctrine in the church all over the world.  Wedding is a Western  culture and tradition and that is their traditional marriage ceremony. But churches outside Europe advice members to observe two wedding ceremonies – one is the native wedding and the other is the white man wedding in the church.


 Till today, the Jews do not perform white man wedding only their traditional marriage. One of the rules guiding marriage is that, a man must not have sex with the woman until after wedding –they have no regard for the virginity of a woman to be observed first as God permits unlike the Jews as almost every woman in  West can sleep with any man  or boy friend and may decide to  marry another man and not her former boy friend and can divorce and re-marry as many times as possible unlike other cultures where the woman is bound to the man until dead. 

The worst of  it is that they discourage pre-marital sex consider as a sin and destroy marriages whose couples have already given birth to  children and consider those children as children of fornication contrary to what God said in the bible. Thus churches separate husband and wife and children adding if they do not separate they will go to hell fire but only encourage monogamy being  a Western  industrialized economic  culture.  Marry only one wife is not applicable to every Christian contrary to what is stated in the bible.  They are the cause of several broken homes to encourage prostitution, abortion and increase the frustration of women world-wide. Although not all the churches preach against polygamy but the so called “bible believing churches”;  they frustrate the women from getting married to other men that are already married contrary to what God said in the bible ( Deut. 21:15-17). 

The daughters of those bible believing churches commits abortion more often than other churches because they are always afraid of their parent in case they are found pregnant by men outside wedlock . But the other churches do not worry  about it;  even encourage the relationship until their girl is put to birth successfully and do not consider  it as a curse  and even wed them with pregnancy without paying bride price for the man  to be sure that  the girl is fruitful and not to pray for a miracle after marriage. 

 But some of the parents of those believing churches would do all they could to ensure she abort the pregnancy before other church members come to know about it.  So it is very secretive. They insist that their daughters must not have sex with any man until they are fully married but never check their  virginity before marriage. If they want to maintain that standard like the Jews as God commanded in the bible, then they must give room for the man to check the virginity of their girl first before the man pays the bride price and that is what God approved in the bible and not before marriage. .  

 Most of them had already been disvirgined by other men  and even had sex with the man she wants to marry on several occasion even in the night before the wedding day. The same people that preach that premarital sex is sin never allow the man to check their daughters virginity before paying the bride price contrary to what God stated in the bible. This  also include the father who must have had sex with other women even his own wife before he paid her bride price. So she was not a virgin before he married her. He must have had girls friends before he married and might have divorced one or two women with their children before he married this one but now claim to be a true born again and breaking other people’s  marriages with children in the name of holiness  and to make heaven at the end. 

The story  of Adam and Eve are one of the portions in the bible used by those preachers stating that God created Adam and gave Eve to  him  as his only wife not two  wives but ignored the fact that their offsprings were not a boy and a girl alone but were two boys namely Cain and Abel and duaghters which negates one-man –one-wife. Thus the blood group and genotype vary from one women to another unless she meets the right man she cannot born – so is not generally for every man and woman to marry and born children. The life span of men are shorter than women because of wars and women have birth limit which is menopause; so if she fails to marry on time, it will be too late for her to have kids unlike the man. So generally, they are not created like the men. If God had made it one man one wife, then they will be no war to claim several lives of men and leaving the women alone and there will be no discrepancy about menopause,  blood group and genotype.  See this link for more details

https://www.debate.org/debates/Polygamy-should-be-legalized-in-the-West/1/

In the book of Timothy, Apostle Paul gave instruction for those Christians  in the churches  that are aspiring to become Deacon or Bishop to stick to one wife as a criterion. Paul did not impose it on every member of the church and never mentioned that is a sin to marry more than one wife- not at all! Because not every member of the church wants to become a Deacon or a Bishop but  these  churches today  are imposing it on every member of the church to marry only one wife based on the western industrialized economy  and using it to destroy marriages even  those with children which has no base in the bible from Genesis to the book of  Revelation.  Apostle Paul gave this criterion to would be Deacon or Bishop to head the churches based on the fact that they were several polygamous husbands  (marrying more than one wife) in all churches at that time. They did not drive them away.  Some of them were subsistence  farmers whose wives and children helped to boost agricultural production and who out of it pay tithes and offering and assisted the Apostles and other church workers and member in need. 

Therefore Apostle Paul only limited it to those who wanted to become seasoned Deacon and Bishops as head of the churches and did not impose it on all the members of the churches as doctrine to marry only one wife.  None of the Apostles of Jesus Christ including Apostle Paul himself  state that marrying more than one wife is a sin rather is a matter of choice and not compulsory  (1Timothy chapter 3). Also, as a matter of choice or as an aspiration, a man or woman may decide to remain without marriage for the sake of God’s kingdom as eunuch or virgin  as Jesus recommends  (Mat chapter 19:10-12). Apostle Paul also recommends that in order to avoid fornication you may marry if you cannot refrain from sex. (1 Cor. 7:9). 

 So marriage affairs is entirely a matter of choice - whether you want to marry only one wife to become a Deacon or  Bishop or  want to  forfeit that offer and want to marry more than one wife or you want to remain without marriage all the days of your life -  the choice is yours – it is not compulsory provided you are still in the faith doing the work of God and keep the necessary commandment even though as human being you cannot keep all the laws but you are declared righteous by  the grace of God like Abraham, Jacob and other that married several wives and are declared righteous by his grace. They started the race before you why do you make things very difficult to others in the faith and creating confusion like those Pharisees in the time of Christ?!.

 Look at the big trouble you have caused to all the women all over the world and the sexual abuses going on right in the house of God and you cannot control it rather you would say, “all are signs of the end time”; but you forget that judgment will begin from the house of God? (1 Peter 4:17). So you the priest must be judged first before the world is judged and you must give account of  all the marriages you have broken, the children you have frustrated, the gay marriage you organized, how you discourage polygamy but gay marriage, the abortion you encouraged, and forcing our girls into prostitution because of your preaching against polygamy and more even when you die today!.    You must he accountable for all the souls you have destroyed. 

More evidently, Jesus the Chief Judge on the day of Judgment, gave a proverb of the ten virgin – all to marry to  one man  called the “Bridegroom” but  only married the five that were wise. So his teachings prove to us that marrying more than one wife is never a sin but is a matter of choice (Mathew chapter 25)

To be cont. on part 14