Under polygamy, it is quite problematic to keep women under the same roof
rather they should stay far apart – living in different states or provinces
and in different countries depending on the financial status of the husband
and the caliber of women he married. Most women do not need the money of the
husband but want to bear his name as married women and most of them have
good jobs and operating a good business with good educational
background. However, a man
with sound financial background can also marry a woman with poor financial
back ground and education depending on the love the man has for her.
But the issue of “one-man-one wife" is the greatest fear among women which
is affecting both the married and the unmarried. The married woman always
suspects the husband whenever she sees any woman around him with the fear
that she would snatch her husband from her and she and her children will
remain strantded because is a matter of one-man-one-wife with the believe
that is a sin for a man to marry more than one wife. As for the woman not
yet married, she is always afraid of the man’s wife so that she would not be
embarrassed even though she is having casual sex with her husband
secretly.
Eventually she becomes pregnant, the man would force her to terminate it
for fear of his wife. This woman may be very close to her menopause and this
pregnancy becomes her last hope but unfortunately, the man does not
want to claim responsibility. ‘Should I terminate it or give birth to a bastard child?’ She asks herself
in tears. The man may even give her the money to abort it in order to
assure her of his seriousness and does not want to have problem with his
wife at home who may report him to their pastor in the church because it is
a sin to commit adultery and must not marry two wives.
So the man is
committing three sins at the same time – abortion, adultery and marrying two
wives at the same time through fornication.
In some cases, the lady may
die during abortion or survived with a very deep regret and still searching
for another man.
Most men are naturally sex maniac – in order words,
have great sexual urge for
women than other men because
all the men are not created
the same way. No matter how
holy he claims to be yet he still have secret lover outside in most cases
with a prostitute. Evidently,
so many great men of God are
caught with prostitute in the hotels. Some are caught with their lady members during outreach or evangelical
programme using it as an opportunity while lodging
in hotels. This is where they
know the real men of God. However, such sin cannot stop the anointing in him
rather continue flowing to
encourage him to sin more
until he is caught and be disgraced before he realize himself.
Most married men do look for other women outside because they have
lost sexual urge with their wivies and lost erection but get erection whenever they make
love to another women outside their matrimonial homes which may be
their girl or woman friends and get sexual satisfaction. If a
man does not have someone else and has lost erection, the wife becomes
worried because he could no longer perform and they attributed it to be evil
spirit. Before you know it, the wife too would look for a spare part outside
in order to satisfy her sexual huge; it may be a very young man far below
her age bracket. This could break their marriage if the husband notices that
she is committing adultery with another man likewise the woman. This type of man can only manage his sexual drive with two wives
alternatively and not depending on one wife alone. Therefore,
this kind of man with
unusually sexual drive becomes
a blessing to other women outside looking for husband to become a second
wife instead.
God did not create all men with the same sexual drive – he created them
differently in order to fulfill different purposes. A man may lost his
erection as he constantly making love to his wife without an alternative. He
no longer has the sexual urge on that woman just as you eat the same kind of
food all the time. Some couples can remain for months without making love
and nobody complain because both of them have the same limited sexual drive.
They do meet ones a while and the man does not lost erection but lost
erection whenever they meet quite often because his sexual feeling about
that woman has reached a saturated point. Therefore, if you do make love to your wife quite often,
you would lost erection
naturally; unless you give a gap –say three weeks and above; the urge will come back to you because
the sperm had been accumulated to be released which created the sexual urge
to meet her and you are back again in full force. No devil causes it – give a gap!
Just as some men are hungry for food but lost appetite to eat when they keep
eating the same kind of food until they eat something different that satisfy
their apithied. Here, I mean, some men
have this kind of sexually
drive naturally; they are not
always satisfy with one woman alone; even though he has lost erection for
his wife, yet he still have
the sexual urge in him until he meets another woman before he will be
satisfied as earlier explained.
I regard it as the spirit of fornication unless he also take this other woman for his
second wife and does not making love to several women around like a
prostitute but limited himself to his two wives as God approved ( Deut.
21:15-17).
A woman looking for a husband would want him to take her for his second
wife but he would refuse for fear of his wife because it is one-man-one wife
affair. Since he does not want to marry her even if she becomes pregnant he
would force her to abort it. As a result, would give him a very big demand
in order to drive him away
because she feels that his coming around her is blocking other men that wants to marry her. So in
other to satisfy his sexual urge, he would be committing
fornication with different women and wasting all his money on them
while his wife at home continues to lament as a result of one –man –one
wife sydrome. If he keeps another wife outside, he will limit himself to his
two wives and spend less unlike those girl friends in the hotel.
Some women too has great sexual drive; they cannot endure for some time
until the husband regain himself. Such a woman can easily blow it up to the
public that her husband has lost erection and that is why she is going after
another man. In most cases, such women get pregnant from another men and
give to their husbands. It is a shame for the married women to be meeting
men outside when already she has her husband because she cannot marry two
men unlike the man. She should pray to God to take away that high sexual
drive from her so that she can enjoy
her marriage else it could lead to a broken home and when she is getting old, she begins to regret it.
Sometimes, none of her children will take good care of her as a result
of her broken home. So you must endure in a man’s house in order to avoid
broken home.
TASTE
The above Five letter words “TASTE” is the king of sexuality; without it
there will be not sex and reproduction. It controls both male and female.
Every individual has different taste. In animal they have different smell or
odor. For example, if you order three women to prepare stew and rice for
you, they cannot give you the same taste even though they use the same
incridents in equal proportion. Most women can cook very well because of her
kind of taste but not all of them. Some men cook better than women and some don't enjoy their wives food but
do eat in the Restaurants because do not have good taste.
The taste is in the palm of a
woman’s hand likewise the man
and that become her source of
good taste which attracts customers in a restaurant business likewise the
male cook. In term of sexuality , not all the women have the same taste on the bed likewise the men.
Consequently, If a man makes love to three women, he can easily
distinguish between which of the three is sweet, sweeter and sweetest,
likewise the woman will feel if she makes love to three different men; that
means, the body itself has
different taste because the blood group and genotype of each individual of
both male and female are not the same.
Consequently, sex itself is
polygamous and depend on taste and therefore is contrary to monogamy –which
means is not a one-man-one-wife issue; if a particular taste in a woman has
reached a saturation point in man which demand an alternative woman,
in the absence, can cause permanent impotentency depending on the
individual. Therefore,
sex is quite dependable on taste. Without that, a man will remain
permanently impotent as soon as he lost erection for his wife; the urge
cannot come to him again even though he sees another woman naked because he
will feel that is the same taste with his wife; so he will not be moved and
his condition remain the same.
The man can regain his
erection when he sees another woman with different taste. Before taking her
to bed, just at first sight, he had already gained his erection because of
the first attraction as one
gets attracted to a meal he never tasted before but looks very delicious
with attractive aroma. The taste in this woman may be sweeter than his wife
at home but will later become
exhausted too with her and the taste for his wife will return to him
and
will perform very well on her
alternatively. So sex is
polygamous and not monogamous because it built on taste.
Taste can break marriages. For example, a lady who had a boy friend but
could not marry him because of his poor financial background,
can still maintain her
relationship with him even after she is married to another man because of
his taste likewise the man to a woman. So what brings a man and a woman
together is the taste.
Therefore, most ugly
men and women have better taste than beautiful and handsome men. God gives
them that grace in order to attract marriage
partners. In that case, you
see a wealthy man married to an ugly lady and beautiful lady to an ugly and
poor man because of the taste. Is not the money that matters, because money
answers all things and one can
satisfy himself sexually with several beautiful ladies with money and also
not the beauty of the woman
that matters because with her beauty she attracts good things
and wealthy men. Therefore, you see
a wealthy man with a beautiful
wife still looking for other ladies and a beautiful wife
with her wealthy
husband still looking for
another man in order to satisfy their taste.
Therefore those men in the
western nations, where polygamy is prohibited, you see them keeping their
wives in the house and meeting women
lodging in the hotels. They
have freedom to devoice anytime in order to get access to other women and
does not stick to only one woman and use that as an alternative to
polygamy. Consequently, monogamy (one-man-one-wife) boosts the tourist
industries world-wide and the largest percentage of them come from the
western nations as a way of relieving themselves from their wives and to get
free access to other women anywhere in the world. So they consider vacation
as their greatest privilege in life including some Asian nations where
polygamy is prohibited because you cannot cheat nature. In that case, it become a big boost to the sex industries both the western
nations and abroad and in most cases some of the women become the victim to the tourist industries by falling into
the hands of women traffickers who sexually abuse them as sex slaves
to make money from tourists both in the western nations and in different countries abroad. This is one
of the evil of one-man-one-wife philosophy (monogamy).
SPIRITUAL CASTRATION
Jesus said, some people are made eunuch for the sake of God’s kingdom
(Mat 19:10-11). You have read
about the story of the Ethiopian eunuch (Acts 8:26-40). Men are made eunuch or castrated like a dog in king’s palace so that they
do not have feeling for the kings wives and cannot make love to them.
Therefore, Queen Jezebel which was King Ahab’s wife had eunuch that
was her Body Guide who threw her out of the windows and scattered her body.
( 2 Kings 9: 30-33 ). The reason is that most Queens do admire handsome
young men and use their royal influence to intimidate them in order to
make love to them when their
husband is away. The same thing happened to Joseph and Potiphar wife but
resisted her which landed him in the prison because Potiphar was one of the
great men of Egypt that worked with Pharoah.
God also castrate his great Prophets spiritually so that they do not
fall victim to women like Prophet Elijah, Jeremiah and John the Baptist that
spent all the days of their life in the wilderness apart from Prophet
Jeremiah and had no wife and
no child. Under spiritual castration, the sexual urge for woman will be
taken away from you. Like myself, I wedded in the year 2000 at the age of
Forty and had my first son at the age of Forty-one because of my religious
devotion when I first
appeared in the wilderness of
John the Baptist in 1981. My spiritual encounter with the angel that gave me
the scroll greatly transformed my life as I begin to receiving visions from
the holy bible from that day onward.
Although,
I was still doubting about my
calling until in 1984 when the mantle of Elijah arrived and the
brimstone(sulphur)was given to me that now physically affect my body and the
gases vibrating in me till date and I never take drugs.
Being in that state of mind, I have no feeling for women. Both my mother
and family members were afraid feeling that I am completely out of the world
and I am impotent since I
have no interest in
women. But as I founded the
church, my members put
pressure on me that I must have a wife else the husbands of the women in the
church will be suspecting me because I have no wife and they will stop their
wives from attending church.
So I married lately in the year 2000 at the age of 40 like Moses in the land
of Median.
Now under castration, the strong feeling for woman will die in you and make
love to your wife whenever you choose and not being over influenced by
sexual urge. Under spiritual
castration, if another woman wants to tempt or seduce you, you get angry
immediately and rebuke her and would not try it next time. You can remain for months and
even for years without having feeling for any woman like Apostle Paul and
the rest of the Apostles of Jesus Christ because they had been made eunuch
because of God’s kingdom (Mat. 19:10-1).
So it takes the grace of God to keep you in that state. But it has a role;
you must be very busy in God’s work and prayerful and reading your bible all
the time else you will be tempted and fall away. Most great men of God are
not castrated spiritually that is why they often fall into the hands of
women inspite of their great anointing. Where there is no woman to
approach, they fall into child sexual abuse in order to satisfy their
urge. Sex itself is natural;
so to refrain from it, you are waging war against nature which becomes a
very difficult battle for most men of God. That is why, Jesus gives a special preference to virgin saints or
eunuch to be raptured first into heaven and to become our heavenly
Ambassadors because of their sexual sacrifice they offered while on earth.
Based on this factor, a man with a very high sexual drive should marry at
least two wives and alternate between them in order to avoid lost of
erection, impotency and adultry. A real believer should ask
God to spiritually castrates
him so that he does not fall into the sin of fornication, adultery and
homosexuality.
TO BE CONT. IN PART 15
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